Chances are, you never planned to date someone married but it suddenly happens that you feel drawn and attracted to this man who isn’t yours. In your case, it may have taken off as casual dating but in the meantime you feel so emotionally connected to him that you find him irresistible.
Here are a few pointers on how to date a married man and be happy.
1. Take it slow
Don’t let the sexual anticipation lead you astray. Be patient with the proceedings that your relationship seem to take as this will also help you know him better. By taking things slow you’ll be able to read his intentions-if he truly loves you or if he only want to have you between his sheets.
2. If he tells you he will divorce his wife, ask him when
A married man can cook up a disheartening story about his wife only for him to win you over into an extramarital affair. If he talks about filing a divorce, loudly ask him when. Remember it’s humiliating to date a married man only for a sexual fling.
3. If he has given a date, ask for proof
If a married man says he is looking out for love and you seem perfect, and he is already in the process of getting a legal separation from his wife, do not just jump in elation and joy. Stay grounded and ask for proof. You need to know what the settlement looks like, who will hold the custody of kids (if any) and other details. Remember, couples reconcile their differences many times.